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How To Overcome and Deal With Mum Guilt

28/3/2023

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Mum guilt is a feeling of inadequacy and self-doubt that many mothers experience regarding their parenting decisions or actions. It is a common phenomenon that can arise from various sources such as parenting choices, work-life balance, and personal time. Mums may feel guilty about not spending enough time with their children, not being present during important moments, or making choices that do not align with their own or others' expectations. Mum guilt can be triggered by societal or cultural expectations, comparisons with other mothers, or even by their own high standards for themselves. It is important to note that dad guilt or parent guilt can also occur in fathers or other primary caregivers.

That’s why Qualified Counsellor & Psychotherapist, Andrew Chan for Delight Counselling, has put together six tips to help overcome Mum guilt. 
Dealing with mum guilt can be a challenging process, but there are several strategies that can help:
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  1. Recognize that mum guilt is normal: Remember that mum guilt is a common experience for many mothers, and it's okay to feel this way.
  2. Challenge negative thoughts: When negative thoughts arise, challenge them with positive affirmations or realistic expectations. For example, remind yourself that you're doing the best you can and that you're a good mother.
  3. Prioritise self-care: Make sure to take time for yourself to recharge and refocus. This can include activities such as exercise, meditation, reading, or spending time with friends.
  4. Seek support: Talk to other mothers who may be experiencing similar feelings, or consider seeking support from a therapist or counsellor.
  5. Reframe your perspective: Instead of focusing on what you didn't do, try to focus on what you did do. Celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem.
  6. Let go of perfectionism: No one is a perfect parent, so try to let go of the idea that you need to be perfect. Remember that doing your best is enough.
​Remember that it's important to take care of yourself in order to be the best parent you can be. By practising self-care and challenging negative thoughts, you can learn to manage mom guilt and enjoy your parenting journey.
If you're struggling as a mum and need professional help, there are several steps you can take:
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  1. Talk to your doctor: Your primary care physician can provide a referral to a mental health professional or therapist who can help you with your specific needs.
  2. Reach out to a mental health professional: A therapist, counsellor, or psychologist can help you work through your struggles and provide support and guidance.
  3. Look for online resources: There are many online resources available for mental health support, including online counselling services, support groups, and forums.
  4. Ask for recommendations: Reach out to friends, family members, or other mums who have sought professional help and ask for recommendations for mental health professionals.
  5. Contact a crisis hotline: If you're experiencing a mental health crisis, you can contact a crisis hotline for immediate support and guidance.

Remember that seeking professional help is a sign of strength, not weakness. As a mum, it's important to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being so that you can be the best parent possible for your children.

Thank you for the guest post Andrew.
How to Overcome and Deal with Mum Guilt
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9/5/2024 01:32:08 pm

The article offers valuable insights and strategies for overcoming and managing mom guilt, providing reassurance and support for mothers navigating the challenges of parenthood. It's a helpful resource for anyone grappling with feelings of guilt and self-doubt.

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